Build the Sisterhood of Your Dreams

A 75 minute masterclass with Sara Chizek

But no one teaches you how to do sisterhood.
How to ask someone to hang out without feeling weird.
How to stay when closeness starts to feel edgy.
How to show up in sisterhood even when you're triggered, unsure, or not your most “together” self.

This masterclass is about exactly that—how to create friendship that’s real, rooted, and worth sticking around for.

You’re not meant to figure sisterhood out alone.

The night that changed everything

Ten months after moving to Austin, I threw my first party. I didn’t know if anyone would show. I had a thousand stories in my head…it’s too close to the holidays, they don’t know me well enough, I’m not that cool…

But people came.

Twenty-five people filled my house.
Three women I secretly hoped to get closer to walked in the door.
And I stood in the corner, just watching it all happen…feeling something in me begin to rewire.

Maybe I am wanted.
Maybe I am worth a Saturday night.
Maybe I don’t have to prove anything to be chosen.

That night didn’t change everything overnight.
But it was a beginning.
And since then, I’ve learned how to create the kind of sisterhood I used to think only happened for other women.

Now I host monthly gatherings.
I’ve built a circle of women who let me be fully me—especially in the parts I used to hide.

It didn’t come from being “nice” or “easy to love.”
It came from being real.

And now, I want to show you what I’ve learned.

In this 75-minute workshop, I’ll walk you through:

→ How to “ask out a friend” without spiraling into fear of rejection

→ What to do when someone says no to friendship (and how to say no with love)

→ Why making friends as an adult feels like dating—and how to move through the messiness

→ The sneaky ways you might be blocking sisterhood (like overgiving or hiding your truth)

→ How to identify and integrate the shadow parts keeping you from connection

→ Real, grounded practices that helped me build my community from scratch

This is for you if:

You’re tired of surface-level conversations and crave real, nourishing connection

You’ve felt like “too much” or “not enough” in female friendship
You’re stuck in old stories that say friendship is supposed to just happen
You want to be seen, chosen, and deeply known—without having to perform for it

The truth about truth-telling sisterhood

It’s one thing to share your truth when it’s tidy. It’s another thing to let people see you when you’re messy, awkward, and afraid you’ll be rejected.

There was a night I was supposed to host a monthly gathering and I had ot message my friends to let them know I had nothing prepared for them — no snacks, no charcuterie board.

I felt really underprepared.
However, I was met with celebration because my friends knew I’m an over planner and that I could benefit from relaxing my good girl conditioning around hosting.

That night turned into one of the most fun, freeing nights I’ve ever had.
We all gave each other permission to play in the shadow parts we usually hide.
For me it was the “bad host,” for another friend it was the “attention-seeker,” for another friend it was the “too-much woman.”
And we gave ourselves permission to be loved in the versions of ourselves that we thought our friends would reject.

This is the power of healing in community.